Just happened to have a casual conversation with Cheryl on this topic today. Is it really better to feel emotional pain rather than be stoic and not let things ruffle us?  It is indeed true that feeling emotional pain does enable us to be more aware of our 'existence' somewhat and also helps to create doors for eventual recovery rather remaining numb and apathetic. 

I'm not sure why, but at this point in time, I beg to differ. Perhaps I may not be making any sense here but what if feeling this emotional pain results in yourself becoming even more isolated and alone? Wouldn't this only serve to increase the pain that you already feel? By trying to remain stoic, doesn't this allow you to continue on with daily tasks and ease you from the paranoia and fear of being isolated? Generally, most people, unless they're comfortable enough, are quite put off by emotional leaks or outbursts. Sadly, it is quite hard to find people who are open-minded enough to deal with situations like this.

For me, as for now, I choose to remain stoic for as long as I can maintain it. Peace of mind is the most important aspect.